And I am here for you in support if that is something you are going through.” However, seeing others responses I don’t even think I will send anything of that sort. I have too and seeing as how unsupportive our church is I just wanted to let you know that no matter what, you are loved dearly and unconditionally. I was speaking more to sending her a message somewhere along the lines of “Hey, I don’t know, but I wondered if you were struggling with your sexuality. I just want to clarify here that I was not meaning encourage her to come out to the church. I also don’t really want to risk her feeling under attack and potentially outing me to the whole church, but I would put aside that fear if I felt like talking to her would have a benefit to her well being.
So I’m not sure if I should reach out or not privately to offer support to her if she is struggling with her sexuality? I don’t particularly want to force her to out herself to me if she’s uncomfortable, granted whenever we’ve spoken she has always been super open and vulnerable with me. I’m not out myself in that church because I don’t want to lose all of my friends. Which I totally understand, I’ve heard her dad talk and in general how people in our church are and I get not wanting to be out or having anyone potentially find out. I’ve kind of come to the mind that I think she likes girls but is very scared of saying anything. So I decided to check if she followed anything that would alert any bells to possibly being gay, which she followed one gay tiktok star but that was it. And then I saw that on another meme page she liked even more posts, but was also not following them. She wasn’t following, but she had liked a few other posts joking about being gay. I decided to look and see if she had liked other posts from that page or was following it. I was scrolling on my insta today and was looking at a post from a gay meme page and saw that she liked it, which honestly shocked me.
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